Saturday, January 1, 2011
Dear Blogger,
There is one topic which i want to say in this blog for today....
"Don't pretend to be my friend, you are or you aren't"
I had enough of this Chubb Nad nonsense in her facebook wall..i had enough. There is no use of writing those statements or commenting for self pity if she didn't push herself and make herself realise where she goes wrong. Should i retaliate and reply to whatever she wrote and talk about me. I know..she bad-mouth me..this 23 years old girl...whom i befriend for the past few years and only be close to her..in 2010. I know,those who came forward to me,earlier and warn me of her..would definitely laugh at my back but they didn't. They just send me msg thru facebook and told me, its ok. Just believe in Karma..she done to several peoples before, you are not alone..some even told me" I TOLD U SO".
How does it feel..to be in my shoes? How does it feel to have this kind of person,in your life..making things difficult for you to move on? How do you feel..its like being stabbed in the back? This is something happen to me before..i should know how to cope with the pain..although the scenario is different, but the pain i had, is something difficult to forget.
He,listen to her story. Never even asked me any explanation but then, i am nothing..maybe just a fling or stranger,delete me..from FB after i deleted her. Obviously,there is nothing much i could say but there is something.......
"Open up your mind and change your way,you are hurting women's with your flirting way"..
I really pity his girlfriend of 3 years and now his fiancee...whom he got engaged in July,before coming to SG...i really pity her..maybe only she could hold him down on his flirty ways..all the best lady....
Anyway,back to the original topic..i decided to let everything..this episode to close. Let her say whatever she want..let her do...whatever she want..its her life. Why i delete her from my Fb, i got a reason for it..personal or not, its mine choice. And i pray..whatever happen, will be a big sad lesson for me. I pray and hope, i will not come across her again..never lay my eyes on both of them.
As my big sister,Salina and my close friends advise, "everything happen for a reason.there is always a blessing in everything".. this incident could be a bitter one for me but it make me feel more appreciative of my close frens and families who never stop showering me with their concerns and advises over and over again.
All i hope and pray, he won't go around and hurt more hearts..especially Fats girls like me..and i do hope..that he will realise that he actually should feel lucky to have a fiancee who are so patience with his flirty way.
NORA