Sunday, January 2, 2011
Dear Blogger,
There is something..of all that i want to say to myself and for those who are reading this blog..
" Let go of the past... Learn from it yesterday, but by all means, move forward "
I am trying my very best to follow this words. Someone,i know and close to,someone i respect most in my circles of frens, msg it thru in my facebook. Advising me..
" Leave it to Allah..let it go..do something to forget..go out with your frens..dun think so much of it..this is just a test from Allah knowing you are strong enough to handle it. Yes, you can Nora,nobody is perfect in this world..nobody. All of us, as human, will go thru this stage one day,either will be early or later ,its depends. Nothing goes smoothly..that's unordinary. Take it as lesson you learn,although its a bitter one. Learn to forgive the person,who impact this hurt on you and you will definitely,will forget it fast. Learn to FORGIVE and FORGET....leave it to Allah to guide you,spiritually...be closer to Him and always remember Him in your prayers.
We can't do anything if Chubb Nadd want to bad mouth you more and more...and fabricating more nonsense. There is nothing we can do but listen but those knowing you..who are close to you..will know what is true and what is not. You have been told of this Nad but you still go ahead and befriend and be close to her. Don't say we didn't warned you earlier,we did. We told before of what she is capable of but we know,knowing you for years, you are stubborn. That's a Scorpio in you. Take it as lesson..bitter than the one you been thru...and go with the flow. Allah always be with you..if you always remember Him. There is always a reason everything happen. You have told me about him being someone fiance since October,when you got those msg in FB..but knowing you,my fren,you are not the type to disturb others relationship. You respect others belonging. There is no need for you to respond or reply or retaliate of whatever she says..be proud that you know,where you stand..truth will be out one day. Silence doesn't mean you are weak or lost. We always stand behind you.
So don't drown yourself in this matter..make 2011 a year of more promising future and i pray, everything will goes smoothly for you . "
Thank you so much kak..knowing you is a blessing in disguise. Although we don't work in the same workplace anymore but your advise,really give me more motivation to move and forget those 2 people exist in my life. Yes, you are right..nothing is free in this world. We have to pay it with a price..
NORA