Tuesday, April 8, 2008
I met up with Kak Umi for drink last night,after work.How she broke down and told me of the story of how her brother missuse her credit cards and loans..how she got cheated of nearly 7k...now she is in deep debt.All these stories, i have experience it. My heart went out to her.No matter what,Allah is always be our side. Pray,may everything be well. As long as we have our 4 limbs,and we still could walk everyday and woke up to the sunrise,we have our thanks to HIM for bringing us a new day.
Its always better to do dealing related to money or finance, with other's rather thank our family members. Its better that way, as it will not cause any misunderstanding with each other. But sometimes, we can't avoid certain things, defitnetly we do need their helps one day.
A friend told me of her problems with her parents and her elder sister. How manupulating she(her sister) is and a big liar..she will work her charms with the parent's just to get her way. Its a complicated family but truly, being a middle child always brought sorrow and sadness.. her family always treat her indifferently somewhow, since she was young and now, although she is already a mother of 2 beautiful daughters,they still wanted to rule her..kind of truly like "The Dynasty" drama i seen on the TV in the 80s...hahaha..my advice to her, since i have been thru that period before..."Syukur alhamdulilah, we have a family, no matter how bad they have treated us. Never kept our anger with us cos its gonna always be a bleak,dark days for us to go thru it. Always selawat, so that evil won't stick to us,and lastly, be patience. As a muslim, kesabaraan adalah salah satu daripada keimanan..do u believe it..i been thru a lot and i stick to these few rules in my life..i felt better. What other's did to us or to me,will one day will get their "dessert" from Allah...i don't deny it that sometimes being angry oveercome me..and i will say it out loud to them,and hate them.But all these are behind me.No matter how hurtful i heard things about me in the dept or among my family members, i will always be patience. That's how i survived in this reality and harsh world. Syukur alhamdulilah, i am still standing..
NORA